The Art of Gathering

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Discussing the art of bringing people together (particularly IRL)

If you’re a building a meaningful life, solve for this
TIL about Jeffersonian dinners

"I opened the subject to them, acknowledged that my situation had not permitted me to understand it sufficiently, but encouraged them to consider the thing together." — Jefferson, 1790

https://www.bouteco.co/sustainable-luxury-travel/2022/4/27/whats-a-jeffersonian-dinner-earth-day
I love the /gathering x /urbanism crossover

If there aren’t any public third places, create your own! For example, Jon Jon hosts Thursday “Popsicles on the Porch” on his front lawn

Tip: invite neighbors but also seed the gathering with friends so it looks “spontaneous” when people pass by

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8JoUmqc/
Gathering can be virtual and even distributef – it’s a sense of shared presence that matters
https://x.com/akilahobviously/status/1826828682146840686?s=46
Too many people trying to solve loneliness as an epidemic problem, not enough trying to just hang out

https://x.com/nikillinit/status/1820107089961738359?s=46
I like the phrase “practical pseudonymity”
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Tips for boosting the attendees-per-RSVP rate?
Who are some of your favorite event hosts?

I'll start with some of my friends here:

@zinger – always makes sure there's good food 🌮 🍕
@serendipity – puts in a ton of work to secure a venue & sponsors 🙏
@ted – finds any excuse to bring people together 🫡
Started a channel to discuss /gathering – the art of bringing people together

Inspired by the book "The Art of Gathering"
https://www.priyaparker.com/book-art-of-gathering

Come share your tips for hosting memorable experiences!