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The change in relationships should be studied, One time you’re the uptight one receiving affection all of a sudden you become the one giving affection, True balance is having the cup at equal levels; whatever that means :)
Relationship is as sweet as honey when you meet the right partner that understands your language
When entering in any relationship, choose wisely, any anyone you at sight is good inwardly. Some people are goats putting on sheep cloth. Be very picky and choose wisely.
Nothing is more embarrassing than your partner cheating and people knowing about it..
Love is a temporary insanity curable by marriage - Ambrose Pierce
10. She Genuinely Likes You, Not Just the Lifestyle You Can Provide

In the early stages, it’s hard to know if a woman is drawn to you or your potential.

Does she laugh at your jokes even before the money?

Does she admire your character before the clout?

Does she support you when it’s tough, or only celebrate you when it’s easy?

A woman who’s genuinely into you doesn’t need glitz, she needs connection.

She enjoys your presence, not your possessions. She finds joy in your growth, not just your gifts.

She chooses you for who you are, not who she wants to change you into.
Let love lead always
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ZKFARCASTER
@zktech·12:25 02/05/2025
9. She Doesn’t Have a Trail of Chaos Behind Her

Her exes don’t all describe her as “crazy.” She hasn’t burned bridges in every city she’s lived in.

She’s not surrounded by enemies, drama, and endless stories of being the victim. A woman’s past matters, not because she can’t grow, but because patterns don’t lie.

If she’s always been the problem, she’ll eventually become one in your life too.

Look at how she left her last relationships. Was there peace or destruction? Did she take accountability or shift blame?

Does she have stable friendships, mentors, and community, or is every relationship in her life temporary and transactional? Peaceful women have peaceful pasts.
9. She Doesn’t Have a Trail of Chaos Behind Her

Her exes don’t all describe her as “crazy.” She hasn’t burned bridges in every city she’s lived in.

She’s not surrounded by enemies, drama, and endless stories of being the victim. A woman’s past matters, not because she can’t grow, but because patterns don’t lie.

If she’s always been the problem, she’ll eventually become one in your life too.

Look at how she left her last relationships. Was there peace or destruction? Did she take accountability or shift blame?

Does she have stable friendships, mentors, and community, or is every relationship in her life temporary and transactional? Peaceful women have peaceful pasts.
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ZKFARCASTER
@zktech·12:25 02/05/2025
8. She Honors Your Vision, Even If She Doesn’t Always Understand It

You need a woman who believes in your mission, even when it hasn’t materialized yet. She may not grasp every detail, but she trusts the direction.

She sees you as the kind of man who makes things happen, and that belief alone fuels you when nothing else can.

She doesn’t nag or question your every step, she supports the journey.

And when you do hit your goals, she doesn’t shift her loyalty to the success. She was clapping when the crowd was silent.
8. She Honors Your Vision, Even If She Doesn’t Always Understand It

You need a woman who believes in your mission, even when it hasn’t materialized yet. She may not grasp every detail, but she trusts the direction.

She sees you as the kind of man who makes things happen, and that belief alone fuels you when nothing else can.

She doesn’t nag or question your every step, she supports the journey.

And when you do hit your goals, she doesn’t shift her loyalty to the success. She was clapping when the crowd was silent.
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ZKFARCASTER
@zktech·09:17 02/05/2025
6. She Doesn’t Weaponize Sex

Too many modern women use sex as a tool, for control, manipulation, or power. But a high-value woman sees intimacy as connection, not currency.

She doesn’t withhold it to punish you or offer it to get her way.

Her physical affection is consistent, enthusiastic, and honest. You never have to beg or prove yourself just to feel desired.

She understands that intimacy is more than just pleasure, it’s spiritual bonding, emotional healing, and masculine recharge.

7. She Can Be Trusted With Responsibility

A woman who handles stress without falling apart, who honors her word, and who manages money, time, or people with competence is a force multiplier.

She isn’t a liability, you can trust her with the business, the children, the household, and your name. She doesn’t wait to be told what to do.

She anticipates needs. She moves like a queen. This woman doesn’t fold when life gets hard. She steps up.

She doesn’t overshare with outsiders.
6. She Doesn’t Weaponize Sex

Too many modern women use sex as a tool, for control, manipulation, or power. But a high-value woman sees intimacy as connection, not currency.

She doesn’t withhold it to punish you or offer it to get her way.

Her physical affection is consistent, enthusiastic, and honest. You never have to beg or prove yourself just to feel desired.

She understands that intimacy is more than just pleasure, it’s spiritual bonding, emotional healing, and masculine recharge.

7. She Can Be Trusted With Responsibility

A woman who handles stress without falling apart, who honors her word, and who manages money, time, or people with competence is a force multiplier.

She isn’t a liability, you can trust her with the business, the children, the household, and your name. She doesn’t wait to be told what to do.

She anticipates needs. She moves like a queen. This woman doesn’t fold when life gets hard. She steps up.

She doesn’t overshare with outsiders.
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ZKFARCASTER
@zktech·09:16 02/05/2025
4. She Challenges You Without Trying to Control You

She’s not passive, but she’s not controlling either. She pushes you to be better without turning the relationship into a power struggle.

She challenges your ideas, but not your authority. She disagrees intelligently and respectfully.

She wants to build with you, not control over you. Weak men fear this kind of woman. Strong men marry her.

She won’t let you stagnate. She’ll call out your excuses, highlight your blind spots, and hold you accountable to your highest potential.

5. She’s Comfortable Being Feminine Around You

A feminine woman doesn’t see her softness as weakness. She embraces it.

She lets you lead because she trusts your strength, not because she lacks her own. She doesn’t compete with you, she compliments you.

She isn’t ashamed to be nurturing, emotional, or gentle. That’s not submission, it’s polarity. And polarity is what keeps a relationship magnetic.

She allows you to step into your masculine role fully.
4. She Challenges You Without Trying to Control You

She’s not passive, but she’s not controlling either. She pushes you to be better without turning the relationship into a power struggle.

She challenges your ideas, but not your authority. She disagrees intelligently and respectfully.

She wants to build with you, not control over you. Weak men fear this kind of woman. Strong men marry her.

She won’t let you stagnate. She’ll call out your excuses, highlight your blind spots, and hold you accountable to your highest potential.

5. She’s Comfortable Being Feminine Around You

A feminine woman doesn’t see her softness as weakness. She embraces it.

She lets you lead because she trusts your strength, not because she lacks her own. She doesn’t compete with you, she compliments you.

She isn’t ashamed to be nurturing, emotional, or gentle. That’s not submission, it’s polarity. And polarity is what keeps a relationship magnetic.

She allows you to step into your masculine role fully.
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2. She’s Peaceful, Not Chaotic

A high-value woman brings peace into your life, not unnecessary drama.

She doesn’t create conflict out of boredom or use emotional chaos as leverage. She respects your focus, protects your energy, and offers calm instead of chaos.

If every week is a new emotional rollercoaster, you’re not with a partner, you’re with a distraction.

And a man with purpose cannot afford to be constantly derailed by emotional volatility.

She doesn’t start fights just to “test your love” or you chase her for validation.

3. She’s Genuinely Happy Without Constant External Stimulation

If a woman needs constant vacations, parties, or attention just to feel satisfied, she’ll never find joy in the everyday grind that real life demands.

A woman who’s content in silence, who can sit with you and enjoy a simple walk, deep conversation, or a quiet Sunday—that’s rare.

She values moments, not just memories posted online. She knows happiness isn’t bought, it’s built.
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ZKFARCASTER
@zktech·09:11 02/05/2025
Marry her if she has this 10 green flags


1. She Respects You When You’re Not in the Room

A woman’s true nature isn’t revealed when she’s with you, it’s shown when you’re absent.

If her respect for you vanishes the second she’s around her girlfriends, coworkers, or family, then it was never real.

A high-quality woman doesn’t tear you down for laughs or gossip. She protects your name and your image, not because you asked her to, but because she values you like a king.

When a woman praises your strengths instead of airing your flaws, it’s a rare sign of long-term compatibility.

In private, this respect translates into emotional safety. She doesn’t belittle you when you’re vulnerable.
Marry her if she has this 10 green flags


1. She Respects You When You’re Not in the Room

A woman’s true nature isn’t revealed when she’s with you, it’s shown when you’re absent.

If her respect for you vanishes the second she’s around her girlfriends, coworkers, or family, then it was never real.

A high-quality woman doesn’t tear you down for laughs or gossip. She protects your name and your image, not because you asked her to, but because she values you like a king.

When a woman praises your strengths instead of airing your flaws, it’s a rare sign of long-term compatibility.

In private, this respect translates into emotional safety. She doesn’t belittle you when you’re vulnerable.
Is there value in (intentionally) short term relationships?

Why or why not?
Who you marry shapes your future more than when you marry. The right partner brings peace, purpose, and support, making every season of life meaningful.

Rushing into marriage for the sake of timing can lead to regrets, but choosing wisely, regardless of age, builds a foundation for lasting joy. It’s not about the clock; it’s about the character. What do you think about this
Nothing gives a man joy more than knowing that his woman respect and regards him despite his financial level.

It is not control or fear!
Do not misunderstand it.

Sometimes allow his own order or opinion to stand, you know how to subtly talk about it in the other room. (Smiles)
I won't teach you everything, but please don't be manipulative in doing this.

I don't care about his financial capabilities but, Please respect your man!
The returns are massive!
How to successfully stop your girl from cheating on you:

Tell her you like it
I think the biggest scam statements that men usually make while dating a woman especially if he is very interested to marry that woman is 'i will change' or 'I will learn'😁😁my sister, if you hear this statement,run for your life oooo if it's not something you can deal with.
find someone who understands you literally when you speak cryptically, and cryptically when you speak literally
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Steve
@stevedylandev.eth·01:35 22/04/2025
We used to work and struggle for things
Marriage is a school involving two persons who are ready to overlook their flaws and live together like they are angels in human form whilst still making mistakes and forgiving eachother with the sole aim of companionship and procreation.
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Just one day, you will meet someone who changes everything ❤️ and it will be so sweet 💘
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Super Ready to have my laptop fixed but for sure glad I'm out of the situation that I was in ....

Leave Toxic Relationships alone , even if you think you can grow through them , just leave , the love isn't real ..... 🙏🏾🏒
Fighting the male urge to ask ‘Honey, where’s the …’ before starting to look for it. Yeah it’s where it always is.

She’s just so convenient.
“we can still be friends tho”
Me:
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your life is fragmented by others' caching, not others' being. heal the mutual life
Hope this cast isn't too😅
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ebeezy
@ebeezy.eth·06:06 01/04/2025
I broke up with a longtime girlfriend on the morning April 1st many years ago. I didn’t realize what day it was til later on.

Every April 1st, I think of reaching out and acting like the break up was one big, long-lasting April Fools joke.
I broke up with a longtime girlfriend on the morning April 1st many years ago. I didn’t realize what day it was til later on.

Every April 1st, I think of reaching out and acting like the break up was one big, long-lasting April Fools joke.
til it’s not just my wife that dry humps their husband
tired: my wife is my best friend

wired: my wife is my life partner

inspired: my wife is my top competitor
perhaps we are afraid to ask what people want in life, like frequently
If you're more focused on showcasing your love online than nurturing it offline, perhaps it's time to reflect: Are you in love with your partner, or just the idea of being in a relationship?
Genuine connections thrive beyond the screen.
Biggest mistake you could ever make is holding on to what’s not yours or who’s not yours ✌️

It’s on another level of pain
In simple words, "It takes two to tango" also you can't give what you don't have.

If you want the best partner, you've got to be the best individual first. You can only learn to truly love and appreciate (gift) your partner only when you've learnt to love and appreciate yourself.

Relationship is not a business venture. It is not a healing zone where you go with your problems and expect solutions. It is not a charity organisation where you expect to be given and not give in return.

It is a ship with two paddles. Both of you must paddle together for it to move forward.
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Ipy 🎭🍖Ⓜ️🎩
@ammy·22:09 02/03/2025
I’m not a relationship expert, but one thing is clear, it takes both sides to build a relationship.

It’s more like “Rub my back, I’ll rub your back”

If your partner does apologize whenever he/she is wrong, you should also apologize whenever you’re wrong.

Whatever you want from your partner, you should also be ready to give it back. You can’t be nonchalant towards them and except them to put you first.

If you want a perfect partner, you should also work towards perfection. If you want the best partner on earth, you should also be the best partner too.

Don’t demand what you can’t give. It doesn’t work that way.
True words.
A relationship should never be one-sided; it takes two to come together, put in effort, and nurture the connection.

Partners must communicate openly, support each other, and contribute equally to their growth. When only one person carries the weight, imbalance sets in, leading to frustration and resentment.

Love, trust, and respect should flow both ways. A thriving relationship is built on mutual effort, shared understanding, and a commitment to growing together.
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Ipy 🎭🍖Ⓜ️🎩
@ammy·22:09 02/03/2025
I’m not a relationship expert, but one thing is clear, it takes both sides to build a relationship.

It’s more like “Rub my back, I’ll rub your back”

If your partner does apologize whenever he/she is wrong, you should also apologize whenever you’re wrong.

Whatever you want from your partner, you should also be ready to give it back. You can’t be nonchalant towards them and except them to put you first.

If you want a perfect partner, you should also work towards perfection. If you want the best partner on earth, you should also be the best partner too.

Don’t demand what you can’t give. It doesn’t work that way.
I’m not a relationship expert, but one thing is clear, it takes both sides to build a relationship.

It’s more like “Rub my back, I’ll rub your back”

If your partner does apologize whenever he/she is wrong, you should also apologize whenever you’re wrong.

Whatever you want from your partner, you should also be ready to give it back. You can’t be nonchalant towards them and except them to put you first.

If you want a perfect partner, you should also work towards perfection. If you want the best partner on earth, you should also be the best partner too.

Don’t demand what you can’t give. It doesn’t work that way.
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Communication is the key, when communication flows both sides, once you have that I don't think there will be any trust issues.

You look gorgeous by the way😊
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Lynda🎭🎭Ⓜ️🍄
@lyli·13:05 27/02/2025
What's more important in a relationship: trust or communication?

Share your thoughts !
What's more important in a relationship: trust or communication?

Share your thoughts !
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How do you differentiate between emotions and feelings?

The worst feeling in the world is being with someone who doesn't understand the difference between them.

How do you process and understand emotions and feelings?

For me, anyone who lacks emotional depth but wants a relationship will find me 403 Forbidden
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Love is, when you're tired, I give you a shoulder; when I cry, you give me a hug. Supporting each other is the truest sweetness.
In solitude, learn to talk to yourself; in crowds, learn to listen to others. Balance is the art of relationships.
Family is the opponent you can never win against in a "verbal battle," but after every "defeat," your heart feels warm.
Every home-cooked meal hides a mother's love. Those familiar flavors are the warmth and comfort of home.
Colleagues are the ones who punch in for you when you're late, and you buy them bubble tea in return—your "silent partners" at work.
A true friend is the one who listens to you in the dead of night, standing by your side when you're at your weakest.
jmac is in Big Sur & sent me this. Sad she didn't know if I had attended groaning lessons or not but figured I must have.
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Breakups hurt? Seriously?? You know what REALLY fucking hurts? Trying to”make it work” with a woman who has PROVEN to you TIME AND TIME AGAIN that she doesn't give a fuck about your feelings. THAT'S what hurts broo.